Choosing a God or Goddess from the Northern Pantheons

Choosing a God or Goddess from the Northern Pantheons

If you’re new to Heathenry (or even if you aren’t), maybe you’re wondering which gods and/or goddesses are your main go-to deities, or (dare I say it?) patron deities. I’ve been reading some blogs about this and I figured, as the Rational Heathen, I’d weigh in on the subject.  As usual, your mileage may vary (YMMV) and any advice I give may not fit your circumstance.

But I Already Have a God/Goddess!

If you’re a newly arrived Heathen, chances are you’ve chosen one of the more media-prominent gods/goddesses such as Odin, Thor, Loki, or Freyja. That’s all well and good, but they aren’t the only ones out there, and they may not fit you.  Also, they’re not a “I’m substituting Odin for the Christian god”-type of gods. Odin isn’t the only creator-god, nor is he entirely benevolent. All the gods have their dark sides, just like human beings. But they also have their good sides, which can be wondrous and amazing when you are on the receiving end.

If you’re a Heathen with some years in Heathenry, you may have found a god/goddess that you like, but maybe are looking for more than one go-to god, or maybe you just don’t feel the fit is right.  After all, there’s a reason why we’re polytheistic, and not monotheistic, right?  All of these are good reasons to explore the pantheon and see if there is another god or goddess whom we can add to our altars.

My Own Experience

Long time readers will know that I didn’t choose becoming a Heathen.  Rather, I got pulled in by Tyr and Thor.  While Tyr is my main god, I have several gods and goddesses I show respect to including Thor, Freyr, Freyja, Skadi, Odin, Zisa, and, oddly enough, Loki.  But they didn’t just show up all at once and talk to me.  No.  As a matter of fact, some, like Skadi, were very cool to me (pun intended). Skadi and I did have a bit of an introductory period.  I had known her years before I became a Heathen, but it is my experience that she doesn’t always come knocking on your door the way other gods and goddesses may do. Freyr did not approach me, either.  I simply opened myself to him.  So, I do have some experience choosing new gods and goddesses.

How Should I Discover a New God/Goddess?

Unless your experience is similar to mine, you’ll probably be charting your own course, so to speak. Finding a new god/goddess may be difficult if you don’t have a god grab you by the scruff of the neck and shout, “You’re Mine!”  (This can be a really disconcerting time in your life, if this does happen.) If you’re looking for a deity, you should first do your homework and find out what you can about each god.  Learn what you can from the myths and Eddas.  Does any one appeal to you in some fashion?

The downside to research is that we don’t know as much about certain gods and goddesses within our pantheon.  Yes, we know quite a bit about the main players, but there’s a lot of guess-and-by-golly when it comes to less-known gods.  Also note that there are some gods who cross over ethnic groups and have different names, but are essentially the same god. Thor comes to mind. He’s Thorr in Norse culture, Thunor in Anglo-Saxon culture, and Donar in German culture. But he’s also Perun in Slavic culture, Perkunas in Baltic culture, and Perendi in Albanian culture. If you’re culturally close to those who worshiped the northern gods, you may want to see if there are gods within your ancestors’ cultures that fit, or seem to resonate with you.

Mediation is immensely helpful in this search. You may hear one or more god or goddess as you practice mindfulness meditation.  In this case, feel free to explore the communication.  You don’t have to choose the god who shows up, but chances are there’s a reason they choose to talk with you while you were receptive.  Be cautious, too, during mediation.  You’re receptive to more than just the gods.  Avoid those that give you bad feelings or harmful requests.  Believe it or not, there are spirits that do take delight on waylaying people.


You’ll have to choose by what feels right.  This isn’t a particularly rational suggestion, but religion is seldom rational in nature. In the end, you must trust you gut-feelings and maybe you’ll get rewarded for your efforts with a UPG or maybe even some communication.

Avoid Popular and Simple Explanations for Deities

I hate to be the party-pooper on this, but the gods aren’t the Marvel heroes. If you’ve been drawn to Heathenism because of the Marvel tropes, that’s okay, but don’t expect Thor, Loki, and Odin to be much like the comic characters.  These are gods who have many dimensions to their personalities, and although we have limited writings about them–many of them colored by Christianity–enough of us have had UPGs to the point where we’ve seen other aspects of the gods.

For example, Freyja isn’t just the goddess of war and sex, (although she is that, too).  She has a very complex role as a goddess.  She takes half the fallen before Odin, thus probably taking the best warriors.  She is a strong goddess who fights, but is still very feminine. She is the goddess of the Seidr, and may be linked to Frigga as the wife of Odin.  She is certainly the most powerful of the goddesses. Your dealings with her may bring certain insights into her personality that you would never find in popular culture.

What About Other Pantheons?

Should you mix and match gods and goddesses from other unrelated pantheons?  What if Freyja and Bast appeal to you?  What if you worship Jupiter, Heimdall, and Wu Xi?  What if you have altars to Christ and Odin? 


Some Heathens will call you out on this as being Wiccan and not Heathen.  They may even give you the sarcastic name of “Wiccatru” for your efforts. Even I am a little taken aback by the mixes. (It’s really not the same as mixing some Eurasian religions with our Norse gods because they’re alike in a lot of ways.) I’m somewhat hesitant to say “yes, you can,” because I don’t have a warm feeling about mixing very different religions.  That being said, if you truly feel the calling between two different gods from two different pantheons, who in the Hel am I to tell you what you should do?

However, some religions by their very nature aren’t up to the task of “Mix-N-Match” gods. Our gods couldn’t care any less who or what you worship, but the Christian, Jewish, and Muslim god isn’t keen on other gods in the playbook. Something about “Thou shall not have other gods before me…” springs to mind here.  While I don’t believe in that god, I do believe that the followers would have something to say about it.  And seeing as the words are in their holy text to not worship any other gods, it seems disingenuous to worship a Judaeo-Christian god and a Norse god.  But again, that’s your business.

I hope I’ve given you some ideas about the gods and how to start your journey into finding a god or goddess you have a special connection with.

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14 thoughts on “Choosing a God or Goddess from the Northern Pantheons

  1. So I am currently live with my parents who are very Christian and if I have an altar I know they will destroy it and I dont want that to happen, are the gods going to be mad at me for not having one? Also, when you say meditate. Do you mean with an altar or candles or just relaxing and thinking?. Sorry I am very new to this but I feel a strong connection to the gods, but I dont want to offend them

    1. You don’t have to have an altar. The gods are fairly understanding when it comes to issues like Christianity and family. However, you can do what I do. I have no statues of my gods on my altar — instead, I have things which remind me of them: a stone with a fox painted on it for Loki, a wolf in wood for Tyr, a pine cone for Zisa, another wolf for Skadi, etc. I also have photos of my family and pets that I have lost there. The images or items can be anything that reminds you of the gods.

      Mediating is something that people call mindfulness. That means sitting quietly and focusing on your breathing. By quieting yourself, you open the door for the gods to speak to you, if they wish. There are a lot of good books on mindfulness — I may have to write a piece about it. Thanks for the comment!

      1. Thank you for getting back to, that is very helpful information. Going to be hard for me to quiet my mind I have add but I will do my best

  2. I too live in a very Christian house hold and I’ve been on the fence of a goddess that’s Irish ,Morrigan . I worship already Odin and Loki but I have a candle for Morrigan I do light it but I’m worried the other two Gods will he angry with me. Should I stop worship to Morrigan?

  3. Hello! I have a question I too have a Christian family but they think the alter is to hold plants and things. I have question that I have two gods Odin and Loki and then I have Morrigan a Irish goddess. Is it bad to have her as well should I no longer go to her for things? Should I drop her?

    1. Heathenry is an inclusive religion. In the past, heathens would often worship local gods alongside their own gods. I think it is perfectly acceptable to worship Morrigan alongside Odin and Loki. Just be sure to treat all with respect, and you’ll be just fine. There was a time in history when heathens worshiped the white Christ alongside our other gods. Personally, I think it was a bit odd, seeing as Christ and Yahweh are totally against pagan gods, but there you have it.

      1. Thanks so much for the help! I’ll keep her going along side the other two gods as I always feel good about having them with me! Have a great weekend!

  4. When I started I was all about skaðI, and I’m sure she has accepted me.

    But wow, I never gave this god much thought before but I can’t stop now, really drawn to her, and it’s slightly disconcerting. But it’s Hella.

    I’m not sure what to make of it.

    1. Well, I would say that Hel has contacted several people, if judging by the messages I get. I would be respectful of the goddess and give her offerings. Be open. Sometimes you don’t get to choose the gods who are interested in you.

      Just be cautious, and don’t do anything outside of your morals or laws. Find out what she might want. She may just want to be acknowledged as part of the gods/goddesses you honor. And just because one goddess makes herself known, doesn’t mean that you have to honor just that one goddess. Continue with Skadi, and feel free to explore other deities in our pantheon.

  5. I came back to christianity after a long time of different paganis, but i feel a heavy pull towards Heathenism at the same time. I mean, ive always had a unique relationship with christianity, using divination and what not still, but would the Norse Gods and Goddesses LET me worship them? The pull to both is so strong it’s made me have a total crisis but I want to be respectful at the same time.

  6. Im sorry if the comment DID post because i cant find it but. If one has extremely stong pulls to both Jesus (specifically him) and Heathenism, like so strong a pull to both it hurts to not worship both (I stopped all worship until i can work my feelings out). Like will the Gods and Goddesses LET me worship then a long side Jesus? (And not white jesus because thats not accurate) I don’t think i could chose even if I tried. Its just so confusing, and im so new to this.

    1. To answer your question, the Norse gods and goddesses do not care if you worship Jesus along with them. In fact, there is precedent for that in pagan history. Jesus was just one god alongside the other gods. Of course, Christianity frowns on this, because Jesus and Yahweh are pretty clear that a person can only worship them.

      That being said, our gods do not care if you add Jesus to the gods you worship. As for the term “the white Christ,” it is just a historical reference to how the Europeans viewed Jesus and how our Northern ancestors referred to him. Jesus, most certainly, wasn’t white.

  7. I’m new to paganism (sorry if I spelled that wrong. My spelling is shit) as a whole. I have felt recently a strong pull to 3 specific gods the strongest (and only norse) of the 3 being loki. But now I’m trying to figure out if it’s actualy loki, some hostile being posting as him, or just my brain saying this due to being a hard core avengers loki fan. I read the other attached article on this and am now hesitant to go the direction of loki/the Pull due to every time I try to figure out if it’s actually loki or christ/ something else all together via focus on the attachment I get excruciating back pain. This only ever happens when I try to do this or enter my deceased grandfathers room. Honestly some advice would be nice.

    1. Hmm, very odd. Loki is an interesting god, and I have certainly spoken with him in the past. He’s sort of the ADHD poster child for the gods. He certainly has both positives and negatives surrounding him.

      I don’t think the actual god, Loki, would give you serious back pain. He’s not really like that, from my experience. Sure, he’s devious and can do some really spiteful things, but messing with you like that? Nah, I don’t think so.

      Loki is a trickster, which means he does things that amuses him, but he usually has a purpose behind his pranks. He can make a hash out of just about anything, but he also can be kind. He usually treats those who heed his call positively, which makes me think that someone else is pulling your chain. Unless you actually hear Loki, it’s probably some other spirit–ghost or wight–that might be causing issues. Try a salt ritual around your grandfather’s room and see if that helps. Look up salt ritual in this blog and it may help get rid of any negative spirits.

      Loki generally doesn’t hurt people, and anything you hear from him should be tempered with your own good judgment. Don’t do anything illegal or immoral if the being asks you to–even if it is Loki. (Doubt it, though). What other gods are you being drawn to?

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