But I Already Have a God/Goddess!If you're a newly arrived Heathen, chances are you've chosen one of the more media-prominent gods/goddesses such as Odin, Thor, Loki, or Freyja. That's all well and good, but they aren't the only ones out there, and they may not fit you. Also, they're not a "I'm substituting Odin for the Christian god"-type of gods. Odin isn't the only creator-god, nor is he entirely benevolent. All the gods have their dark sides, just like human beings. But they also have their good sides, which can be wondrous and amazing when you are on the receiving end.
If you're a Heathen with some years in Heathenry, you may have found a god/goddess that you like, but maybe are looking for more than one go-to god, or maybe you just don't feel the fit is right. After all, there's a reason why we're polytheistic, and not monotheistic, right? All of these are good reasons to explore the pantheon and see if there is another god or goddess whom we can add to our altars.
Long time readers will know that I didn't choose becoming a Heathen. Rather, I got pulled in by Tyr and Thor. While Tyr is my main god, I have several gods and goddesses I show respect to including Thor, Freyr, Freyja, Skadi, Odin, Zisa, and, oddly enough, Loki. But they didn't just show up all at once and talk to me. No. As a matter of fact, some, like Skadi, were very cool to me (pun intended). Skadi and I did have a bit of an introductory period. I had known her years before I became a Heathen, but it is my experience that she doesn't always come knocking on your door the way other gods and goddesses may do. Freyr did not approach me, either. I simply opened myself to him. So, I do have some experience choosing new gods and goddesses.
Unless your experience is similar to mine, you'll probably be charting your own course, so to speak. Finding a new god/goddess may be difficult if you don't have a god grab you by the scruff of the neck and shout, "You're Mine!" (This can be a really disconcerting time in your life, if this does happen.) If you're looking for a deity, you should first do your homework and find out what you can about each god. Learn what you can from the myths and Eddas. Does any one appeal to you in some fashion?
The downside to research is that we don't know as much about certain gods and goddesses within our pantheon. Yes, we know quite a bit about the main players, but there's a lot of guess-and-by-golly when it comes to less-known gods. Also note that there are some gods who cross over ethnic groups and have different names, but are essentially the same god. Thor comes to mind. He's Thorr in Norse culture, Thunor in Anglo-Saxon culture, and Donar in German culture. But he's also Perun in Slavic culture, Perkunas in Baltic culture, and Perendi in Albanian culture. If you're culturally close to those who worshiped the northern gods, you may want to see if there are gods within your ancestors' cultures that fit, or seem to resonate with you.
Mediation is immensely helpful in this search. You may hear one or more god or goddess as you practice mindfulness meditation. In this case, feel free to explore the communication. You don't have to choose the god who shows up, but chances are there's a reason they choose to talk with you while you were receptive. Be cautious, too, during mediation. You're receptive to more than just the gods. Avoid those that give you bad feelings or harmful requests. Believe it or not, there are spirits that do take delight on waylaying people.
You'll have to choose by what feels right. This isn't a particularly rational suggestion, but religion is seldom rational in nature. In the end, you must trust you gut-feelings and maybe you'll get rewarded for your efforts with a UPG or maybe even some communication.
Avoid Popular and Simple Explanations for DeitiesI hate to be the party-pooper on this, but the gods aren't the Marvel heroes. If you've been drawn to Heathenism because of the Marvel tropes, that's okay, but don't expect Thor, Loki, and Odin to be much like the comic characters. These are gods who have many dimensions to their personalities, and although we have limited writings about them--many of them colored by Christianity--enough of us have had UPGs to the point where we've seen other aspects of the gods.
For example, Freyja isn't just the goddess of war and sex, (although she is that, too). She has a very complex role as a goddess. She takes half the fallen before Odin, thus probably taking the best warriors. She is a strong goddess who fights, but is still very feminine. She is the goddess of the Seidr, and may be linked to Frigga as the wife of Odin. She is certainly the most powerful of the goddesses. Your dealings with her may bring certain insights into her personality that you would never find in popular culture.
What About Other Pantheons?Should you mix and match gods and goddesses from other unrelated pantheons? What if Freyja and Bast appeal to you? What if you worship Jupiter, Heimdall, and Wu Xi? What if you have altars to Christ and Odin?
Some Heathens will call you out on this as being Wiccan and not Heathen. They may even give you the sarcastic name of "Wiccatru" for your efforts. Even I am a little taken aback by the mixes. (It's really not the same as mixing some Eurasian religions with our Norse gods because they're alike in a lot of ways.) I'm somewhat hesitant to say "yes, you can," because I don't have a warm feeling about mixing very different religions. That being said, if you truly feel the calling between two different gods from two different pantheons, who in the Hel am I to tell you what you should do?
However, some religions by their very nature aren't up to the task of "Mix-N-Match" gods. Our gods couldn't care any less who or what you worship, but the Christian, Jewish, and Muslim god isn't keen on other gods in the playbook. Something about "Thou shall not have other gods before me..." springs to mind here. While I don't believe in that god, I do believe that the followers would have something to say about it. And seeing as the words are in their holy text to not worship any other gods, it seems disingenuous to worship a Judaeo-Christian god and a Norse god. But again, that's your business.
I hope I've given you some ideas about the gods and how to start your journey into finding a god or goddess you have a special connection with.
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